How do I prepare and use Halloween lacing cards for a quiet party table?

What's in the printable lacing card list

The printable list has 24 Halloween card ideas: eight starter shapes, eight middle-tier shapes and eight harder shapes. Each description gives a hole count, a suggested lace length and a detail to try. They range from an 8-hole full moon to an 18-hole spider web.

Use Print all 24 to print every description, or Draw another card to get a random idea. The random picker can choose a card from any difficulty level, so check what it gives you before you hand that card to a child.

These are written card ideas, not ready-to-cut shape templates. You draw the outlines yourself. A full moon is a simple circle, and a candy corn is a broad triangle with rounded corners. For the more detailed designs, you'll need to mark the stitching route yourself. You don't need to make all 24. Choose a few that suit the children coming.

If drawing outlines and marking stitching routes is too much preparation, a Halloween paper chain is simpler: you cut strips from letter paper and loop them together, with no shapes to draw. The same pack also offers a figure garland, but its pumpkins, bats and ghosts need outlines drawn first. Its printed pages are instructions, not cut-out outlines. See how to make Halloween paper garlands.

How to make the cards and laces

Make and lace one sample card before you prepare the whole table. The suggested measurements need to fit the outline you draw and the way the children will stitch it.

• Supplies listed: 200 gsm card stock, a pencil, scissors, a quarter-inch hole punch, reinforcement rings, worsted-weight yarn, clear tape, bags, markers and a tray for finished cards.
• Draw large outlines and cut them out. If you print an outline you already have, check its size and the printer margins first. Only turn borders off if the outline fits your printable area. Keep each difficulty level on separate sheets or in separate piles.
• Mark the suggested number of holes about 1 inch apart and half an inch in from the edge. If that many holes won't fit, change the outline rather than crowding holes into narrow points.
• Punch the holes and add a reinforcement ring to each one to help protect the edges.
• Draw a star by the starting hole near the bottom left. For candy corn, the card description suggests starting near the yellow tip, so put the star there. Keep any decorative eyes off the lacing route unless the card says to stitch them.
• Cut each lace to the length in that card's description. Lace your sample all the way through to check the length before you cut the rest.
• Put one card and its lace in a bag for each seat. Keep the difficulty levels separate, and keep two spare laces per level in a box for yourself in case of tangles or breaks. If guests will want a second turn, make extra cards.

Once you've chosen your cards, write each material, the quantity, any spares and where it's stored on one sheet, so a helper can find things. Our printable supply list has a section for activity supplies.

Before setting out bags, count the usable seats, check that each child has room for their elbows and pick a spot for the finished-card tray. Make a sample card ahead. See our kids party table setup guide.

How to show children how to lace their cards

Give each child a card and its matching lace. Show them the star, then push the taped end through that hole and pull gently until the knot catches at the back. Bring the tip through the next hole from the other side, and keep going up and down around the outline. Keep the yarn loose enough that the card stays flat.

Decide which adult will show the first stitches and help children who start later, and keep spare laces within their reach. Prepare anything needing adult help ahead. See how to organize a craft station at a party.

Ask the children to write their names on the back of their cards so each card goes home with the right person. If you use helper badges, offer one to any child who wants to help hand out the next cards. Finishing a hard design doesn't need to be a competition.

Since each named card already goes home, it can be the party favor, so you don't need a separate one. Children take home a card they made themselves. See party activities that double as the favor.

Offer helper badges and harder cards to children who want them, without ranking who finishes first or comparing results. Hand out next cards in a set order rather than by speed. See how to keep party games from getting too competitive.

• Use whisper voices while people are lacing.
• Keep one lace at your seat and keep your card flat on the table. Don't wave your lace at the person next to you.
• Ask for help or another card instead of reaching across someone else's work.
• Put finished cards in the tray for finished cards, then ask for another bag if you want another turn.

How to choose a card for each child's age

These ages are starting suggestions. Adjust them for each child's experience.

Before relying on an age band, think about each child's actual skills and whether they want to try. The same applies to every activity, and none has to include everyone. See how to choose party games for children's ages.

A pipe cleaner pushed through larger holes is another threading option for young children. It uses different materials, so make a sample before you prepare all the cards.

• Ages 3 to 4: an 8-hole starter card, such as the full moon or candy corn. Help with the first stitch and let them lace the holes in any order.
• Ages 5 to 6: a 10-hole to 12-hole card. Have them follow the outline and practice going up and down through the holes.
• Ages 7 and up: a harder shape. They can go back through every second hole for a sewn-seam look, or try the crossing stitches described on the scarecrow card.
• Mixed ages: a younger child with a full moon can sit next to an older child working on a 16-hole scarecrow. They can share the table without needing to finish at the same time.

In the next shared game, keep children together but give them different jobs: a younger child searches while an older one reads the clue, then they swap. At this table they still lace at their own pace. See how children of different ages can play together.

When to prepare the cards, with an example 15-minute session

Spread the preparation over the days before the party: a week before, pick the shapes, print the descriptions and check your card stock, hole punch and yarn. The weekend before, draw and cut out the outlines, then mark, punch and reinforce the holes. Two days before, test a sample, then cut, tape and knot the remaining laces, bag the cards and sort them by difficulty. On the morning of the party, put a bag at each seat and the tray for finished cards at one corner, and show your helper where the spare laces are.

Decide when the lacing table is open and how your helper will direct children who'd rather move to an active area. Children don't need to finish together. See our party plan for high-energy and quiet kids.

Example only: picture a table of six children, made up of two 4-year-olds and four 6-year-olds. In this example, the six includes the birthday child and doesn't include the adult helper. You would bag two starter cards with 2-foot laces and four middle-tier cards, each with the lace length its description gives. Following the spare-lace suggestion, you'd keep two spare laces for each level you use, so four spares here. Make extra cards too if anyone will want a second turn.

What to do after lacing

Have one next activity ready instead of opening several new stations at once. Keep unfinished cards with their laces so the children can finish them later or take them home. Clear away the lacing supplies before you use the same table for anything else, such as decorating food. If the group wants to move around after sitting, choose an active game for the next activity.

For an active next game, Halloween acting cards let children move around after sitting. Choose a prompt pile that suits the group before you start, rather than sorting cards during play. See our Halloween acting cards for kids.

A short routine helps the switch: children put each unfinished card back in its bag with its own lace, finished cards go in the tray, and any spare or unused laces go back in your box. Once the table is clear, give one simple first instruction for the next activity. Party transitions between activities covers warnings and stop cues.

Checklist before the children sit down

• You laced a sample card all the way through and checked the lace length.
• Each seat has a bag with one card and its matching lace, sorted by difficulty.
• Each lace has a taped tip that fits through the holes and a knot that holds at the back.
• Starting holes are marked with a star.
• The table rules are posted, and the tray for finished cards is in place.
• Spare laces are in your box, and your helper knows where to find them.
• Markers are out so children can write their names on their cards.
• Your next activity is ready.

Sources and further reading

• Halloween lacing cards for a quiet party table

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