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This or That Questions for Kids

Plan This or That Questions for Kids around the question format, comfort level, and pass rule, with clear choices, practical setup, and a fallback the host can actually run.

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Make This or That Questions for Kids Work In Real Life

Use This or That Questions for Kids to decide the question format, comfort level, and pass rule before you choose the supporting details.

01Read both choices twiceName the decision for This or That Questions for Kids before buying supplies or assigning activities.02Let kids point or movePut the first action, food, or rule for This or That Questions for Kids where guests and helpers can see it.03Use a pass ruleChoose one shorter or simpler fallback for This or That Questions for Kids before weather, energy, timing, or supplies change.
Question round Options

Practical Choices For This or That Questions for Kids

Each option below shows what to set out, what guests do first, and where the host can stop or switch.

01Question
Ages 5+ | warm-up

Dogs or Cats?

For This or That Questions for Kids, start dogs or cats? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start dogs or cats? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start dogs or cats? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start dogs or cats? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. Choose one and say what you would want to do with the animal.

Have ready:None

Host note:Ask younger children to show an animal sound instead of explaining.

02Question
Ages 5+ | seated

Pancakes or Waffles?

For This or That Questions for Kids, start pancakes or waffles? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start pancakes or waffles? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start pancakes or waffles? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start pancakes or waffles? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. Pick a breakfast and add one topping you would put on it.

Have ready:None

Host note:Keep food choices general so no child has to discuss allergies.

03Question
Ages 5-8 | imagination

Fly or Breathe Underwater?

For This or That Questions for Kids, start fly or breathe underwater? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start fly or breathe underwater? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start fly or breathe underwater? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start fly or breathe underwater? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. Choose a power and show one place you would use it.

Have ready:None

Host note:Let children draw the answer when talking feels hard.

04Question
Ages 6-10 | activity lead-in

Build a Fort or Make a Maze?

For This or That Questions for Kids, start build a fort or make a maze? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start build a fort or make a maze? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start build a fort or make a maze? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start build a fort or make a maze? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. Pick the play plan that sounds more fun and tell the group the first material you need.

Have ready:None

Host note:Use the answer to choose the next real party activity.

05Question
Ages 5-9 | silly

Dinosaurs or Dragons?

For This or That Questions for Kids, start dinosaurs or dragons? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start dinosaurs or dragons? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start dinosaurs or dragons? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start dinosaurs or dragons? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. Choose a creature and name one sound or skill it has.

Have ready:None

Host note:Accept both when a child cannot choose.

06Question
Ages 6-12 | movement

Beach or Snow?

For This or That Questions for Kids, start beach or snow? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start beach or snow? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start beach or snow? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start beach or snow? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. Pick a place and show the weather you would pack for.

Have ready:Two signs optional

Host note:Put the choices on opposite sides of the room.

07Question
Ages 5-12 | transition

Draw or Dance?

For This or That Questions for Kids, start draw or dance? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start draw or dance? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start draw or dance? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start draw or dance? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. Choose how you would spend five free minutes, then let the group try the winner.

Have ready:Paper optional

Host note:Keep both options ready so the vote can become the next activity.

08Question
Ages 7-12 | conversation

Super Speed or Super Strength?

For This or That Questions for Kids, start super speed or super strength? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start super speed or super strength? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start super speed or super strength? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start super speed or super strength? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. Pick a power and say what party problem it would solve.

Have ready:None

Host note:Ask for one sentence so the round keeps moving.

09Question
Ages 6-12 | calm

Read a Book or Watch a Movie?

For This or That Questions for Kids, start read a book or watch a movie? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start read a book or watch a movie? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start read a book or watch a movie? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start read a book or watch a movie? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. Choose the quieter plan and name a story you would bring.

Have ready:None

Host note:Use this when the room needs to settle.

10Question
Ages 5+ | food wait

Pizza or Tacos?

For This or That Questions for Kids, start pizza or tacos? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start pizza or tacos? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start pizza or tacos? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start pizza or tacos? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. Pick a meal and add one topping or filling.

Have ready:None

Host note:Do not make the most popular answer a prize.

11Question
Ages 7-12 | imagination

Invisible or Tiny?

For This or That Questions for Kids, start invisible or tiny? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start invisible or tiny? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start invisible or tiny? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start invisible or tiny? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. Choose the pretend power and describe one safe place you would visit.

Have ready:None

Host note:Keep the places playful, such as a treehouse or library.

12Question
Ages 5-9 | active

Rain Boots or Snow Boots?

For This or That Questions for Kids, start rain boots or snow boots? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start rain boots or snow boots? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start rain boots or snow boots? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start rain boots or snow boots? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. Choose the weather you would rather play in and make one sound for it.

Have ready:None

Host note:A sound or gesture gives nonreaders an easy way to join.

13Question
Ages 6-12 | transition

Treasure Hunt or Obstacle Course?

For This or That Questions for Kids, start treasure hunt or obstacle course? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start treasure hunt or obstacle course? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start treasure hunt or obstacle course? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start treasure hunt or obstacle course? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. Choose the party challenge you want next and name the first clue or obstacle.

Have ready:None

Host note:Use the vote to move straight into the winning activity.

14Question
Ages 7-12 | imagination

Talk to Animals or Speak Every Language?

For This or That Questions for Kids, start talk to animals or speak every language? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start talk to animals or speak every language? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start talk to animals or speak every language? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start talk to animals or speak every language? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. Choose the skill and name the first question you would ask.

Have ready:None

Host note:Let children answer in pairs if the group is large.

15Question
Ages 5-10 | pretend

Be a Pirate or an Astronaut?

For This or That Questions for Kids, start be a pirate or an astronaut? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start be a pirate or an astronaut? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start be a pirate or an astronaut? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start be a pirate or an astronaut? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. Pick a role and choose one thing you would take on the adventure.

Have ready:None

Host note:Follow with a quick pose or sound.

16Question
Ages 5+ | food wait

Giant Cookie or Giant Cupcake?

For This or That Questions for Kids, start giant cookie or giant cupcake? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start giant cookie or giant cupcake? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start giant cookie or giant cupcake? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start giant cookie or giant cupcake? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. Choose the dessert and say what color the frosting would be.

Have ready:None

Host note:Keep this one short if food is about to arrive.

17Question
Ages 7-12 | active

Sing or Act?

For This or That Questions for Kids, start sing or act? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start sing or act? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start sing or act? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start sing or act? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. Choose the way you would perform a story, then let volunteers show a ten-second version.

Have ready:None

Host note:Make watching an acceptable role.

18Question
Ages 8-12 | planning

Morning Party or Evening Party?

For This or That Questions for Kids, start morning party or evening party? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start morning party or evening party? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start morning party or evening party? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start morning party or evening party? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. Pick the time and name the first thing guests should do.

Have ready:None

Host note:Use this as a bridge into a party schedule conversation.

19Question
Ages 8-12 | group

Team Game or Solo Challenge?

For This or That Questions for Kids, start team game or solo challenge? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start team game or solo challenge? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start team game or solo challenge? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start team game or solo challenge? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. Choose the play style that feels better and explain one reason.

Have ready:None

Host note:The answer can help you choose the next game.

20Question
Ages 5-10 | creative

Make a Snowman or a Sandcastle?

For This or That Questions for Kids, start make a snowman or a sandcastle? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start make a snowman or a sandcastle? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start make a snowman or a sandcastle? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. For This or That Questions for Kids, start make a snowman or a sandcastle? with one visible example, give players a simple way to join or pass, and set a stopping point before the next activity. Pick the build and name one funny feature to add.

Have ready:None

Host note:Move to a drawing version if the room is small.

This or That Questions for Kids: Practical Choices For This or That Questions for Kids

Each option below shows what to set out, what guests do first, and where the host can stop or switch.

Party CleanFor 5-12Clear, friendly, and low-pressure

How to use this pack

  1. Choose a this or that round that fits the kids.
  2. Read one prompt at a time and explain how a player may pass.
  3. Stop at a natural break and switch rounds before the energy drops.
Prompt picker

Pick the next question

Which would the kids pick for round 1: option 1 or option 2, and why?

Warm-up prompts

Use these this or that prompts for this or that questions for kids at a pace that lets anyone pass.

  1. Which would the kids pick for round 1: option 1 or option 2, and why?
  2. Which would the kids pick for round 1: option 2 or option 3, and why?
  3. Which would the kids pick for round 1: option 3 or option 4, and why?
  4. Which would the kids pick for round 1: option 4 or option 5, and why?
  5. Which would the kids pick for round 1: option 5 or option 6, and why?
  6. Which would the kids pick for round 1: option 6 or option 7, and why?
  7. Which would the kids pick for round 1: option 7 or option 8, and why?
  8. Which would the kids pick for round 1: option 8 or option 9, and why?
  9. Which would the kids pick for round 1: option 9 or option 10, and why?
  10. Which would the kids pick for round 1: option 10 or option 11, and why?

Shared experiences

Use these this or that prompts for this or that questions for kids at a pace that lets anyone pass.

  1. Which would the kids pick for round 2: option 11 or option 12, and why?
  2. Which would the kids pick for round 2: option 12 or option 13, and why?
  3. Which would the kids pick for round 2: option 13 or option 14, and why?
  4. Which would the kids pick for round 2: option 14 or option 15, and why?
  5. Which would the kids pick for round 2: option 15 or option 16, and why?
  6. Which would the kids pick for round 2: option 16 or option 17, and why?
  7. Which would the kids pick for round 2: option 17 or option 18, and why?
  8. Which would the kids pick for round 2: option 18 or option 19, and why?
  9. Which would the kids pick for round 2: option 19 or option 20, and why?
  10. Which would the kids pick for round 2: option 20 or option 21, and why?

Playful choices

Use these this or that prompts for this or that questions for kids at a pace that lets anyone pass.

  1. Which would the kids pick for round 3: option 21 or option 22, and why?
  2. Which would the kids pick for round 3: option 22 or option 23, and why?
  3. Which would the kids pick for round 3: option 23 or option 24, and why?
  4. Which would the kids pick for round 3: option 24 or option 25, and why?
  5. Which would the kids pick for round 3: option 25 or option 26, and why?
  6. Which would the kids pick for round 3: option 26 or option 27, and why?
  7. Which would the kids pick for round 3: option 27 or option 28, and why?
  8. Which would the kids pick for round 3: option 28 or option 29, and why?
  9. Which would the kids pick for round 3: option 29 or option 30, and why?
  10. Which would the kids pick for round 3: option 30 or option 31, and why?

Keep it moving

Use these this or that prompts for this or that questions for kids at a pace that lets anyone pass.

  1. Which would the kids pick for round 4: option 31 or option 32, and why?
  2. Which would the kids pick for round 4: option 32 or option 33, and why?
  3. Which would the kids pick for round 4: option 33 or option 34, and why?
  4. Which would the kids pick for round 4: option 34 or option 35, and why?
  5. Which would the kids pick for round 4: option 35 or option 36, and why?
  6. Which would the kids pick for round 4: option 36 or option 37, and why?
  7. Which would the kids pick for round 4: option 37 or option 38, and why?
  8. Which would the kids pick for round 4: option 38 or option 39, and why?
  9. Which would the kids pick for round 4: option 39 or option 40, and why?
  10. Which would the kids pick for round 4: option 40 or option 41, and why?

This or That Questions for Kids starts with the question format, comfort level, and pass rule; the search phrase this or that questions for kids points to that same practical choice. Put the first rule or question for This or That Questions for Kids in front of guests, show one example, and let the opening round teach the rest. ## Decide What This or That Questions for Kids Needs First

Choose the guest fit, room, timing, and help that control This or That Questions for Kids. If one constraint for This or That Questions for Kids is tight, make it the first filter and remove options that create extra work. ## Set Up The First Moment

For This or That Questions for Kids, stage only the supplies, food, or instructions needed for the opening. The question round handoff for This or That Questions for Kids should put the next action in sight so a helper can explain it, serve it, or reset it without asking the host to rebuild the plan. ## Keep The Party Moving

Set a stopping point for This or That Questions for Kids before its room gets tired or its table gets crowded. Once the question format, comfort level, and pass rule is handled for This or That Questions for Kids, move to food, a quieter option, or the next activity while guests still know what to do. ## Use A Smaller Backup

Keep a shorter version of This or That Questions for Kids ready for weather, late arrivals, missing supplies, or a group that wants something different. The fallback for This or That Questions for Kids should use less space, time, noise, or supervision and still solve the same problem. If you still need to finish This or That Questions for Kids, use the next page that answers the question you have now:

Run This or That Questions for Kids On A Simple Timeline

Stage the decision, supplies, and backup in the order the host will need them.

01One week outChoose the format for This or That Questions for Kids, confirm the guest mix, and check the space.02Three days outBuy or borrow the supplies for This or That Questions for Kids, confirm food or rules, and tell helpers what changes the plan.03The day beforePack the This or That Questions for Kids supplies by activity or serving area and place the fallback where you can reach it.04Party dayStart This or That Questions for Kids with one visible first step, watch the stopping point, and move guests on before the room stalls.

Prepare This or That Questions for Kids Before Party Day

Use these checks to turn the main choice for This or That Questions for Kids into a setup someone can run.

Name the controlling choiceWrite down the question format, comfort level, and pass rule for This or That Questions for Kids before you shop or set up.Stage the first stepPut the first supply, food, question, or rule for This or That Questions for Kids in its working spot.Plan the handoffDecide who serves, explains, watches, or resets This or That Questions for Kids when the host is busy.Write the fallbackKeep one smaller version of This or That Questions for Kids ready for a late change, tired guests, or missing supplies.
Finish The Plan

Choose the next resource only when it answers the remaining question for This or That Questions for Kids.

Questions Hosts Ask About This or That Questions for Kids

What should I decide first for This or That Questions for Kids?

Start with the question format, comfort level, and pass rule. That choice changes the supplies, timing, space, and amount of help the party needs.

How do I keep This or That Questions for Kids manageable?

Use one main choice, one visible first step, and one backup. Remove details that create work without helping guests participate.

What should I prepare before guests arrive?

Set out the first supplies or food, label anything that needs a choice, and put the reset or cleanup materials beside the activity.

What if the first plan does not fit?

Switch to the shorter backup that uses less space, time, noise, or supervision while solving the same party problem.

What should I do next?

Use the related page that answers the remaining decision about food, games, timing, guests, supplies, or cleanup.