Quiet charades prompts to print

Use these eight prompts for the silent acting game described below. Show the chosen prompt only to the actor; an adult can quietly read it to a child who needs help.

Random prompt

Draw one when the room is ready

Opening a book

Everyday actions

  1. Opening a book
  2. Brushing your teeth
  3. Putting on a coat
  4. Drawing a picture

Animals to act out

  1. A cat stretching
  2. A bird flapping its wings
  3. A rabbit twitching its nose
  4. A turtle pulling into its shell

Library birthday party room checklist

Before you send invitations, ask the library whether its meeting room can be used for a private birthday party. Then confirm the rules for food, decorations, noise and room access in writing. Use the questions, blank notes and checklists below to prepare the room, organize quiet activities and finish cleanup within your booking.

Ask seven questions before you book

Tell the branch what you want to host, the date you are considering and how many people may attend. Ask whether a children’s birthday party is permitted before working through these seven topics:

  1. Capacity: How many people can use the room? Include children, staying adults, helpers and any siblings you have agreed can attend.
  2. Privacy: Is the room reserved for your group, or can other library visitors enter? Which areas outside the room may guests use?
  3. Food: What food and drinks are allowed, and where may guests eat? Ask separately about cake, candles, on-site cooking and fridge or freezer access.
  4. Decorations: Are easels, table covers and paper centerpieces allowed? What are the rules for wall tape, glitter and helium balloons?
  5. Access times: When can you enter to set up? When must guests leave, and when must cleanup be finished?
  6. Charges and refunds: What are the room fee and deposit? Ask about cancellation deadlines, cleaning charges, refund conditions and when any deposit refund is processed.
  7. Noise: What volume is permitted? Ask about music, singing and games, and whether the room is beside a quiet study area.

Keep the written answers with your booking confirmation so helpers can follow the same instructions. A written reply records what you were told; it does not replace the booking terms.

Ask for adult and child RSVP counts separately before comparing your headcount with room capacity. If food is restricted, the questions to ask a venue about outside food can help you clarify cake and individual food arrangements without assuming an exception is available.

Booking notes to print and fill in

Branch and room: ______________________________

Party date: ____________________ Booking reference: ____________________

Contact name and number: ________________________________________________

Private birthday party permitted? __________ Written confirmation received: __________

Booking topicBranch’s answer or instruction
Capacity and full headcount________________________________________
Privacy and areas guests may use________________________________________
Food, drinks, candles and storage________________________________________
Decorations and balloons________________________________________
Setup access, guest finish and cleanup deadline________________________________________
Fees, deposit, cancellation and refund terms________________________________________
Noise limits, music and singing________________________________________

Room fee: __________ Deposit: __________ Cancellation deadline: __________

Refund conditions and expected timing: ________________________________________

Sketch the room map before you unpack

Draw the room on graph paper before party day, using one square per foot if you have the measurements. Mark the door, windows, outlets and the route to the bathroom. Ask staff which furniture you can move and whether they have a diagram showing how to return it afterward.

Try the food table against the back wall, away from arrivals, if the branch permits food and that arrangement fits the room. Put activity tables where both helpers can reach them. Give gifts and cake a separate corner, with a chair nearby if you want birthday photos. Keep bags, boxes and decorative pieces out of the entrance and routes through the room; follow staff instructions about the space that must remain clear.

The source plan suggested leaving three feet around the door. Treat that as a sketching starting point, not an access standard or permission to narrow a route. Confirm the room’s required clearances with staff.

An easel welcome sign, table covers and paper centerpieces can give the room a theme without attaching anything to the walls. Check that each item is allowed. The birthday decoration ideas can help you choose a tabletop display, but use this branch’s rules when adapting an idea that involves a banner or backdrop.

Keep supplies and helper jobs in your party planning checklist alongside the room map. If the eating period is short, use the 30-minute food-service plan to work out what to portion before arrival rather than assembling everything in the room.

Room setup notes

Room dimensions: ____________________ Staff furniture diagram received: __________

Food table location, if permitted: ________________________________________

Activity tables: ____________________ Gifts and cake: ____________________

Coats and bags: ____________________ Bathroom route: ____________________

Approved decorations: ____________________________________________________

Space to sketch the room on your printed copy:

Room sketch
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Choose games that fit the noise rules

Explain the room rules as children arrive: use the agreed voice level, walk inside and watch for your raised hand when you need their attention. Demonstrate the hand signal once. Ordinary conversation, laughter and guessing still make noise, so confirm what the branch allows rather than assuming a seated game will be quiet enough.

Choose two activities to prepare, with a drawing or puzzle table available for anyone who wants another option. These are examples to adapt to your guests and the branch’s rules.

Picture bingo with a raised-hand finish

Make a three-by-three picture card for each child, with familiar pictures such as a book, cake, star and gift in different positions. Bring pencils and a matching caller’s list. Show and name one picture at a time; children mark it on their cards. Agree that a completed row across, down or diagonally ends the round, and ask players to raise a hand instead of shouting.

Show a practice turn and help younger children find the picture. The quiet party games guide has a fuller bingo example and other seated games if this one does not suit your group.

Charades with guesses taken in turn

Use the printable prompt pack above. Show a prompt privately to one actor, who gives clues without speaking. An adult can quietly read it to an early reader. Ask guessers to raise their hands, then take one answer at a time at the permitted voice level. Let children pass or guess from their seats if they do not want to act.

Show one turn before starting and stop after everyone who wants to act has had a turn, or at the time you have agreed. The charades rules for kids offer more prompts and ways to help a child who gets stuck. Silent acting does not make the guessing silent; choose drawing instead if spoken guesses do not fit the room’s rules.

Book pictures and an optional drawing table

Draw a few imaginary book covers and make matching cards showing a character or object from each cover. Children can match them at the table without needing to search the shelves. You could also ask staff about a paper scavenger hunt in the children’s area, but keep the activity inside your booked room unless that use of the library is approved.

Leave plain paper, crayons and a familiar puzzle at a nearby table. Children can start, stop or watch without a timer or a public turn. The activities guests can join at their own pace guide explains this option in more detail. Put it where helpers can reach both tables without supplies blocking the way through the room.

Your library party preparation checklist

Use these tasks with the booking notes above. Keep individual food arrangements and contact details in the host copy of your plan.

About four weeks before

  • Confirm that the branch permits your birthday party before sending invitations.
  • Ask about availability, fees and all seven booking topics; keep the answers in writing.
  • Check whether the setup, guest period and cleanup fit the available booking.

About two weeks before

  • Confirm the reservation in writing and save a copy for party day.
  • Send invitations with the room location, parking information and exact start and finish times. Ask guests to arrive at the stated time, after setup.
  • Confirm children, staying adults and agreed siblings against room capacity.
  • Choose two games that fit the noise rules and prepare any picture cards or prompt slips.
  • Recruit two adult helpers if available: one for food and one for activities. If you have less help, simplify the plan and assign jobs that can happen in sequence.
  • Confirm food arrangements with families and choose an approved menu that needs no cooking in the room.

The day before

  • Pack one rolling bin with approved table covers, an easel or sign, tape-free decorations, plates, napkins, wipes and trash bags.
  • Put small game pieces in separate bags so they stay together in transit.
  • Pre-cut cake and portion food or drinks where practical, following the selected food’s preparation and storage directions.
  • Label food containers with their contents and keep any individually agreed food with the family’s instructions. A label alone does not establish that food is suitable for a guest.
  • Pack the appropriate cooler or other transport container for food that needs it; do not rely on an unconfirmed library fridge.
  • Print the schedule, booking confirmation and room map, and clip them together.
  • Confirm the room contact’s name and number.

When the room opens

  • Enter when your setup window begins and keep boxes on a cart or in the agreed storage spot, away from the entrance.
  • Arrange the tables, food and approved freestanding decorations using your map.
  • Put the schedule on the easel or table where helpers can read it.
  • Keep drinks lidded if that is part of the branch’s rules or your agreed setup.
  • Explain the voice level and quiet-hand signal when guests arrive.

An example two-hour library room booking

This example uses a room available from 1:30 to 3:30 p.m., with guests attending from 2:00 to 3:15 p.m. It totals 120 minutes: 30 for setup, 75 with guests and 15 for cleanup. Use it only if those access times and activities are permitted. Extend the booking or simplify the activities if your group needs longer.

  1. 1:30–2:00 · Set up the room — 30 minutes. Arrange tables, put out the arrival activity and prepare the approved food area. Check the room map and helper jobs before guests arrive.
  2. 2:00–2:10 · Welcome guests — 10 minutes. Offer drawing or picture matching while families arrive. Explain the room rules and show the quiet-hand signal.
  3. 2:10–2:35 · Play the first game — 25 minutes. Demonstrate bingo or charades, then give children time to play. Keep the optional drawing table available.
  4. 2:35–2:55 · Serve food and cake — 20 minutes. Use prepared portions and the approved drinks. This block assumes that food and any birthday singing have been permitted.
  5. 2:55–3:10 · Play again or finish drawings — 15 minutes. Repeat a short round, try the second prepared activity or let children finish at the tables.
  6. 3:10–3:15 · Gather belongings and say goodbye — 5 minutes. Help guests collect projects, coats and bags. Arrange any pickup that needs longer before setting this finish time.
  7. 3:15–3:30 · Clean up and sign out — 15 minutes. Allow about ten minutes for the team sweep and five for the final room check and staff handover, adjusting to the branch’s requirements.

Write the actual times on your invitation and helper copy. The guest period here is 75 minutes, not a 90-minute party added to setup and cleanup.

Reset the room before the staff walkthrough

Assign the final jobs before guests arrive. Keep the branch’s disposal instructions and furniture diagram with your party cleanup checklist so another adult can finish without guessing.

Reserve the last 15 minutes in the example booking for the following tasks. Allow more time if staff require it or your setup needs longer to clear.

  • Pack remaining food according to its storage directions and gather serving supplies.
  • Wipe tables using the supplies or method staff have approved.
  • Check the floor for crumbs, paper and game pieces.
  • Bag trash and take it only to the place staff have specified.
  • Return tables and chairs to the staff diagram or agreed arrangement.
  • Check walls and furniture for marks, and report any damage or concern before leaving.
  • Collect decorations, projects, gifts, coats and borrowed supplies.
  • Complete the required walkthrough or sign-out and record any follow-up about the deposit.

A completed cleanup does not guarantee a refund. Keep the booking terms and any handover record so you can follow up on the branch’s stated process.

Cleanup jobs to print and fill in

JobPerson responsibleSupplies or staff instruction
Food and table wipe-down________________________________________
Floor and loose pieces________________________________________
Trash disposal________________________________________
Tables and chairs________________________________________
Final check and sign-out________________________________________

Cleanup starts: __________ Room must be clear by: __________

Walkthrough contact and time: ________________________________________

Deposit follow-up date or instruction: ________________________________________

Choose a theme with tabletop activities

Choose an activity first, then add a few approved decorations. A theme can be clear through a table sign, paper supplies and what children do together. These are suggested setups, not extra activities you need to add to the schedule.

  • Book characters: Ask children to draw an imaginary character and make a matching book cover. Display a sample on the table and let guests take their pictures home.
  • Bookmarks: Put out card strips and suitable drawing supplies so guests can decorate bookmarks. Add names before pickup. The finished bookmark can be the take-home item; the birthday favor guide includes this option and helps you count supplies.
  • Picture detectives: Use the book-cover matching cards from the activity section, with a small detective sign on the table. Keep the clues within the room unless staff approve another area.

Browse kids’ themes with built-in activities for other ideas, then leave out any feature that does not fit the room. The broader birthday party games guide includes seated options, but music, running games and balloon play need separate consideration under this booking’s rules.

If food is permitted, choose a small menu you can prepare before arrival. Sandwiches, fruit cups, cupcakes or pre-cut cake are possible options depending on your guests and the branch’s permissions. Use the party food ideas to decide whether you are serving a meal or snacks, and tell families which to expect. Keep eating in the area the branch has approved.

Library party booking questions

Can I book a library birthday party at any branch?

Do not assume a meeting room allows a private birthday party. Ask the branch whether your event is permitted and get its answer in writing before paying or sending invitations.

How much does a library party room cost?

This page does not provide a verified price for your branch. Ask for the room fee, any deposit, possible cleaning charges and the cancellation and refund terms before booking.

What food can we bring to a library room?

Bring only food and drinks the branch has approved. Confirm where guests may eat, whether cooking is allowed and whether storage is available. If eating is permitted, pre-portioned food and pre-cut cake can reduce serving work during the booking. Follow the food’s storage directions and the arrangements agreed with families.

What decorations work in a library room?

An easel sign, table covers and paper centerpieces are options to ask about. Confirm they are permitted, and do not use wall tape, glitter or helium balloons unless the branch approves them.

How long should a library birthday party run?

The example here uses a two-hour room booking: 30 minutes for setup, 75 minutes with guests and 15 minutes for cleanup and sign-out. It is a planning example, not a branch requirement. Confirm that all three periods fit within your actual access times.

Printable planning help

Plan the Library Party

Keep your booking answers, room map, activity choices and cleanup jobs together for party day.