Parties are fun, social, and usually filled with memories to last a lifetime. But, as much fun as they can be, there is one important rule: following social etiquette. Knowing which social norms to stick to is key for ensuring everyone has a good time. To ensure that your next party is a success, here are some of the things you should never do.
Why Is It Important to Follow Social Etiquette at a Party?
Having a basic understanding of the social etiquette of the party scene is a must. Not following proper etiquette can lead to embarrassing situations, awkward conversations, and possibly even hostility. After all, parties should be about having a good time—not creating an uncomfortable atmosphere for either the host or their guests.
Don’t Be Intoxicated
This goes without saying—but being drunk or otherwise under the influence is a major no-no. This may seem like an obvious pointer, but it’s worth saying twice: drinking too much at a party is never a good idea.
Alcohol or not, being impaired can prevent you from engaging in conversations or activities in a sensible manner. On the other hand, it’s perfectly acceptable to have a few drinks when done responsibly and in moderation.
Don’t Be Overly Loud or Disruptive
It’s normal for conversations and enthusiasms to get lively, but there is a limit. Don’t be that person who got too loud and prevented people from hearing each other’s conversations. It’s not cool.
At parties, more often than not, you’ll end up with loud music. Even if you want to shout your opinions over it, try to not be disruptive. Joining the conversation in a respectful manner always works better than trying to impose your opinion on others.
Don’t Bring Uninvited Guests
The invitation says it all. Bringing uninvited guests is not only frowned upon, but it can also be seen as rude and inconsiderate. If in doubt, double-check with the host first to make sure it’s alright.
If you do happen to bring an uninvited guest, keep in mind that you’re responsible for their behavior. You don’t want them to cause any disturbances at the party—especially if it’s a surprise or intimate gathering.
Don’t Be Overly Critical of Others
Parties are intended to be full of fun and socializing with acquaintances and friends. Crude comments and belittling someone’s taste or opinions are not welcomed. Poking fun at someone has never been acceptable.
Refrain From Starting Controversial Conversations
Sharing one’s opinion and beliefs can be interesting conversation starters at parties. However, having this type of dialogue can easily turn sour or heated. Controversial topics are best initiated outside of social gatherings. To make sure your next party goes down without a hitch, stay away from any kind of inflammatory topics.
Don’t Hog the Conversation
A party should be about having lively conversations and having the chance to talk to everyone there. Conversations should be shared among people, which means that one person shouldn’t dominate the entire proceedings. Give other people the chance to express their opinions and share stories.
Avoid Gossiping
Gossip is never appropriate at a party. It’s a tradition that we can all do without – especially since this type of talk can have a negative impact on the reputation of the people involved. Talking behind someone’s back is never acceptable.
Respect Other People’s Personal Space
Respecting other people’s boundaries is key when it comes to being socially acceptable in this day and age. Touching people or invading their personal space without consent is considered rude and inappropriate. Keep in mind that other people have differing comfort levels when it comes to physical contact.
Avoid Making Jokes That Could Offend Others
Humor is important part of many parties, but making jokes at the expense of someone else’s feelings is inappropriate. This can lead to many awkward situations, ruined reputation, and possibly hostile conversations. Make sure your jokes don’t hurt anyone.
Keep Your Phone away from the Table
It’s fine to take a few selfies here and there, but put your phone away during conversations with other guests. Checking notifications during conversations can be seen as disrespectful—the same rules apply when you are eating with someone.
Refrain from Taking Photos without Permission
Parties are filled with potential photographs opportunities. However, it’s always polite to ask permission or let everyone present know before taking a picture. Posting photos of people taken without their permission online can be seen as an invasion of privacy. Be mindful of who’s in your photos before sharing them on social media.
Clean Up After Yourself
After every party, guests should clean up after themselves and help out with serving any dishes or beverages that were used. This courtesy goes a long way—especially when it’s a potluck party. So make sure to help out for an easier clean-up afterwards.
Offer to Help with Cleanup
Cleaning up is definitely something that should be done after every party—helping out makes the host’s job easier and lets them know how much you appreciate the effort they put into hosting the party. So make sure you offer your help even if you do nothing else.
Following these simple rules will make everyone have a good time at your next party. Whether you’re attending or hosting, having respect for the other people there and being courteous will make sure everyone has wonderful memories after the night is done.
